Feb
some of you may of answered to my last question and i appreciated that…
thing is a told the father of my child he is going to be a daddy yesterday hes saying alsorts like wanting a perternity test and he wants weekend access and trying to find out info about my life….were not together so all i wanted to do was explaine that hes going to be a daddy..but hes being so immature and his mother lost a baby at 13 weeks..she said something that worried me 'i hope you dont lose your baby' since all this i have been abit stressed out
i went out for a little today with a friend and felt a bit strange, i had a bit of tummy ach on my right side at the bottom and top, its been mild and wears of when i dont feel as stressed…i dont no if its coz im stressed but i feel worried and like i want to cry! i am scared about miscarage also.
all i have had my ex doing is lying to me and being a nasty **** to me…am i being stupid?
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no, you are not being stupid. he is stupid. i just found out that im expecting and am paranoid about a miscarriage too. just dont worry about him. he's a piece of crap. have fun and think about all of the good things a baby brings. i think its normal to have some cramping sometimes and its definitely normal to feel like you wanna cry for no reason. your hormones are going CRAZY!
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your welcome. good luck!! Report It
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your hormones are crazy its ok if you cry. And cramping is normal if you bleed call your doctor asap.
As for you and your ex…give it some time he will come around. If he is saying mean stuff do you dont talk to him..Tell him you dont need that and when he wants to be suportive call. I know you want him in the babys life thats normal but remember you cant force it..dont call him and tell him what your going through and how its his fault…or thretin him with seeing the baby. Focus your energy on your baby it helps. Journal…write down the way you feel! Its ok to feel crazy right now..its normal! You will be a great mom im sure. CONGRATS AND GOOD LUCK!
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First off, relax. It's so normal to get pains in your lower abdomen while you're pregnant. It's your body adjusting to being pregnant. As for your ex, F*** him (not literally of course). Just ignore him until the baby is here and give him the paternity test as you're taking him to court for child support. As for his mom, ignore her too. People will say the DUMBEST stuff while you're pregnant.
Good luck!!!!
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First off its perfectly normal to feel aches and pains when you are pregnant. You have to remember that your uterus is trying to make room for a whole another person. If it is not sharp there is no reason to worry!! Second of all don't worry about your ex, I know that is easier said than done because he is your fathers child. But you need to worry about yourself and the life that is growing inside of you. You can worry about your ex and how everything will work after the baby is born. Take care of yourself. Good luck and Congrats!
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Try not to worry. I was under so much stress early in my pregnancy and all turned out fine. My husband would not speak to me, I found out so really bad news bout my former boss and how he had asked other employers not to hire me as a favor to him, I had to move us, while my husband worked. I cried every day for at least 3 or 4 months.
I would not contact the father anymore. I would try to avoid the stress if you can. Also, he has no legal rights to the baby at this point, he can't take the baby or anything like that without the court giving him permission. Which takes time.
Take Care.
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Well I would suggest laying low, and steering clear of him and his mom until you feel better! I went through a similar situation with my first child, and I cried so much that she came out a cry-baby! Just stick with your friends, and enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can, don't let stress cause you to lose your baby! if you ask m that's what they want!! Congrats, and Good luck!!
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No - if you are concerned go to your doctor for a check up. No harm in being on the safe side. Its probably a shock to the father so he is lashing out. It may all calm down once hes had time to think about it. At the moment you need to think about you and your baby. Good luck!
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As hard as it is, try to stop stressing so much. I had the same situation. Surround yourself with friends, family, and people who will be supportive of you and your child. Let your ex question as much as he wants (try not to listen and don't let it get to you) you can worry about paternity, etc after your child is here. Guys are stupid sometimes and he may step it up and decide to be a part of child's life. My situation didnt end that way, but I did realize just who was there for me and my now 10 month old. There was some really rough days, but you get through them one at a time. Good luck
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Don't stress: your whole midriff is going to feel uncomfortable for the next several months. As your uterus stretches, you will feel cramping very similar to a period. The time to call your OBGYN is if you're spotting blood–even then, that can still be innocuous.
Be good to yourself, however. All that stress just adds to the hormonal upheaval of the first trimester–you're going to feel a little crazy, and that's also normal. Your body is making some major adjustments. The best thing you could do for yourself is find someone whom you trust who has already been through a pregnancy: a mom, your aunt, etc. That way, when you start to panic, you have someone you can call immediately.
Then ignore everyone else's advice! hahaha: even mine, if you want. Women love to tell their horror stories about pregnancy, and as soon as they find out about you, they'll be pulling at your ears to tell you all of their "wisdom." But every pregnancy is different, even hen the same two parents are involved in multiple pregnancies.
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when i first found out i was pregnant i had worries about losing my baby but its natural just try to relax i got over my blues by picking out my babys little cute outfits it really relaxed me and about the pains if its your first its just your uterus expanding i get pains now and then just relax and eat health