May
my auntie had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago. she has no kids and she came round my house earlier and she was in tears as she spoke to my mum.
we havent done miscarriages at school so can you explain what happens. i realise the main fact about them but can u explain? sorry if this question upsets you. how long do you think it'll take her to get over it? i think this is her second miscarriage and she’s aproaching her 40s.
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I just had a miscarriage myself. I had been pregnant for 13 weeks, and I was so happy because I knew I was going to be a mom. Then one day I noticed that I was bleeding from my vagina, so I went to the doctor, who did a special test called an ultrasound which can see through your belly into the place the baby grows, the womb (or also called a uterus). The test said that the baby was dead because its heart had stopped beating. This happens to about 1/6 of women who are pregnant, and the rate is higher for women who are older. Most of the time, nobody can ever figure out why it happened. Either the baby will come out of the womb through the vagina on its own or she will have a surgery to take it out. If your aunt is like me, she’s devastated that this tiny person she loved with all her heart has died. She wonders if she’ll ever be able to have a baby, and wonders if there’s anything that she could have done to save her precious baby. (there isn't, some babies just die even if the mom did everything right.) It will make her sad to look at pictures of babies or to see people with babies. People will state stupid things to her like “At least the baby died early, before it was born” (which doesn't mean that she loved it any less), or “This was part of God's plan” (why would God want to kill a baby?) These people are trying to be comforting, but they’re not being helpful. If you want to help your aunt, let her know that you love her very much, and that you are sad that she lost the baby because you know she loved it very much. Then don't state anything else about it, ever again.
Envision if someone you love died - how long would it take you to get over it? She probably won't “get over it” for a long time, if ever, but eventually she won't be suffering so much.
I am very sorry for your aunt, because this is a very sad thing, and a very hard thing to go through.
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It all depends on how far long she was. No matter how far she was it can still be sad, but if she was pretty far it can be devistating.
I was only 4 weeks, and had just found out i was pregnant, so I was sad, but it only made me want to try again to get over it and make me feel superior. Others who are farther along might need more time to get over it.
What happens is the baby stops developing or there was a deformity in the chromosomes, so the heart stops beating, and your body recognizes this and lets go of the baby, by bleeding it out. Some women have to get whats called a DNC and the doctor goes inside the uterus to scrape everything out and make sure there is no remains of the baby, because if something blocks the ovaries, and your body tries to drop an egg in your uterus during the next menstraul cycle it can get blocked and explode your tubes. That’s not good at all.
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Wow. First of all, sorry about your aunt's loss. There can be different reason for a miscarriage. The ideal thing to do is to ask your mom, because she'll know what was going on in your aunt's pregnancy and be able to explain it better then someone who doesn't know the whole situation. There really isn't a certain amount of time to get over something like this. As time goes on your aunt will be able to handle it better and be more at peace with it, but the memory will always injured. The ideal thing for you to do is be there for your family. Talking to your parents will give the best idea of what to do to help.
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wow thats tough! A miscarriage is odviously when a pregnant woman loses the baby for some unfortunate reason that might or may not have had anything to do with anything that the woman could have done to prevent it! you follow! sometimes a womans uterus can not hold a baby and she might have multiple miscarriages but maybe its in gods will for her not to have a baby and as sad as it is it happens to many!
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A miscarriage is when your body becomes unpregnant. There could be a chemical reason, or the baby has an abnormality where the body rejects it, or a large range of unknown reasons. If its a genetic issue, the baby is usually miscarried before the first trimester is over. As for “getting over it”, I can't imagine she ever will. The pain will decrease, but she'll always wonder about the child she lost and its sex, personality, looks, etc.
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i am really sorry about the miscarrage
my mum had a miscarrage and i was really upset becuse it was going to be my first brother or sister
i no this isnt really ansuring your question but chances of peragnacy after a miscarrage or birth are really high
so dont give up hope yet
because 2 months after my mums miscarrage she fell pregnant again now i have a really cute sister
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Here try this website,it might help…sorry im not good at trying to explain things like that.My prayers are with your family.