Feb
oh my god, i am panicking, i am NOT ready for a baby at all, i have missed one week pills like a month ago…. what should i do to get rid of the baby?? i mean if i am, hope this test is lying… i don't wanna go through abortion , i just want a pill or something… please help!
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There is a pill called RU486, it induces a chemical abortion, there is no vacuum aspiration or surgical abortion taking place in this case, just a miscarriage occurs.
You need to contact a doctor asap if you want this pill because you can only take it up until the 8th week of pregnancy.
The test rarely lies. It measures hormones in your body that could only exist if you are pregnant.
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If it says your pregnant, you probably are. Go to the dr to be sure and get a blood test. You did the deed, it's not your baby's fault. Abortion is wrong, bottom line. The pill is wrong. You're old enough to have sex, take the responsibilities and consequences that come with it. At the very least, please have the baby and consider adoption. There are too many couples out there who long to have a newborn baby!
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I would like to say congratz, but don't think you want the baby.
Take another test and see, if it's still positive, go talk to a doctor.
There is no pills, (i don't believe anyway) that you can take if it's already 1 month. The pill only work when it's within 72 hours.
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Have the baby and…
1. Be responsible for your actions and take care of it.
OR
2. Give it up for adoption to a family who can love it and care for it.
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Well if the test says yes, then you are. If you wernt ready to have kids then maybe you shouldnt be having sex! You did the deed, now pay the consequences. Why should a baby have to die because you dont want the responsibilities of being a mommy!?!@
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according to my mom there is a pill that will make you have a miscarriage because that's what she wanted me to do when she found out i was pregnant at the age of 16. call your doctor right now and tell them because if you wait too long there won't be anything you can do. hope it all works out well for you.
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if you didn't want a baby then you shouldn't have skipped a weeks worth of pills**
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Trust it, they're over 99% accurate. If you didn't want a baby you should've been more responsible. Now you're going to prematurely end a precious life…. who are you? You need to woman up… if you don't want him or her you should give her up for adoption. There are so many couples out there that can't have children including one of my very best friends. She would give anything to have a baby. Recently a pregnant woman in England found out she had cancer…. rather than abort the baby so she could begin treatment she waited until the baby was born…. She died, but not before giving life to her child. That's a hero.
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Well it's either a abortion are the abortion pill. But that is only right after you have sex.
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if your not ready for a baby you should be having sex.. if you are preganat stand up and be a woman… i am sick of girls thinking abortion or PILLS are the way out.. i am 17 and have a 5 week old. i was 16 when i got pregnant and i didnt go run and kill the baby.. it was my fault not hers she didnt deserve to die.. and i am soo glad to have her… be protected next time
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hey try to stay calm i havea kid im 22 but trust me it was worth it but if its not for you yet then if you go to your doctors straight away you will get a pill to take then you have a big period and thats it good luck hun hope this helps you
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Awe well thats too bad. Its really fun and i wouldnt give it up ever. And im only 16!
But since it is just a home test go to the er and tell them your symptoms if there are any nd that you took a home test and it came back positive.. they will do one and it will be 100% correct. Then if it says you are and you still feel that way, talk to the doctor. But to my knowlege the only "pill" you can take to "get rid of it" is the morning after pill and your a but farther than a moring after.
Maybe you could consider giving the baby up for adoption..
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Okay, get "rid" of the baby? Like it's a parasite or something? Man, that's pretty low. If you're not ready to have a baby, then why did you have sex? That's pretty irresponsible, don't you think?
Good luck with whatever you decide. Hopefully not an abortion, since you knew what you were doing when you laid down for the guy. At least consider adoption and give the kid a chance.
Stop freaking out and think logically. What if someone had aborted you?
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pregnancy test are usually 99 percent of the time true. take a few more and if not go see a doctor. if your panicked about having a baby then you are probably not supposed to be having sex so just keep your pants on.
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ahhhhh…people are soo slow sometimes!
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Calm down!
First of all, there's one thing you need to do before you make any decisions, you and me both know that.
1. Go see your doctor.
Find out if you're really pregnant or not.
There are three ways to go about this:
1. You have the baby.
2. You have an abortion.
3. You have the baby and get it adopted.
Carefully think about it, think about what you want.
The baby could mean you'd have to sacrifice everything OR it could be the best thing you've ever done.
Then, contact the father.
Good Luck..and don't forget to breathe!!
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How sad for that tiny baby that is snuggled in your tummy!
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Too Late to be taking Plan B…as for an abortion, search out abortion videos then decide if you still want one…caution they are very distrubing
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if you read the instructions carefully and executed them right 9 out of 10 you are pregnant if you are under age contact an adult or a parent and good luck
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There is a day after pill however they may not give it to you if you show up positive. However I dont condone it. I still think it is an abortion.. There are plenty of people in this world that cant have a baby and you should give it to someone you know that will be good to it or to an agency where people get checked out before an adoption process can take place… GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.
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Whoa, girl, slow down honey. Pregnancy tests are usually only positive if you really are. But when you take a pregnancy test the baby is already implanted in your uterus, the morning after pill is too late. And any pill from this point on would be a technical abortion.
Just think carefully about it. If you really can't handle raising a baby there are many families looking for babies. If you need someone to talk to check out bethany.org, they have support people you can call.
If you couldn't give a baby up then just think about what you can do. If you are young you need to tell someone you trust, hopefully your parents, so that you can get some support. Start taking prenatal vitamins to keep your body healthy. That kind of a thing. I fyou need to talk more, feel free to e-mail. I do feel for you!
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um…a pill instead of an abortion is STILL an abortion. Be grateful damn't
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well, its unfortunate for the baby that you made the mistake of having sex when you knew you hadn't been taking the pill for that week. if you don't want to have an abortion, then give the baby up for adoption for the chance to be loved by someone who truly wants a baby. i don't know if you don't want to go through the surgical procedure of an abortion or if its the thought of abortion all together. but i have heard that if you are a few weeks along in the early stages of pregnancy, there is a pill that will cause a miscarriage. you should call your local planned parenthood asap. Don't delay. Good luck to you…and keep taking your pills!
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Put the child up for adoption. It really irritates me when people ask “how can I get rid of it”. And it also irritates me that you said you missed a week of your pills. It’s your fault, you missed them, you knew what could happen, yet you missed them anyways. A baby is not something “you get rid of”. I am 14 weeks pregnant with my first and my sister had been trying for two years, now she is on treatment for endometriosis and is having to take shots to help her get rid of it, then the doctor is going to put her on some medicine to help her get pregnant, and you got pregnant just from missing a week of pills and you want to “get rid of it”. It make me sick how people who do not want kids can have them no problem and the ones who can give them a loving home like they deserve either can’t have them, or have trouble conceiving. No abortion, no “quick fixes”, you missed the pills, you deal with the consequences and hopefully let someone else who actually wants a child adopt it. Oh, and start getting prenatal care and taking prenatal vitamins, the baby deserves it. Good luck.
I don’t care how many “thumbs down” I get, the truth hurts.
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why are you in shock? You knew if you missed even one day, It was possible to get pregnant. You missed a week!!!! Now that you are, the decision is yours not ours. How the hell can you ask us to make such an important decision? Get a grip!
TO ALL PF YOU WHO GAVE ME THUMBS DOWN KNOW WHY. YOU PROBABLY ASK THE SAME LAME *** QUESTIONS. YOU CAN KISS MY YOU KNOW WHAT!
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It is really easy to get a false negative, but terribly hard to get a false positive. The test detected the pregnancy hormone in you urine, therefore read as positive. If you miss even one pill it's effectivness is really compromised. You should call your Doctor. There is no pill for a pregnancy this far along, the day after pill only works 72 hours after unprotected sex. I do not believe in abortion, but I do believe that it is a woman's choice as to what she does with her body. Here is my opinion, you are at a vital point in your life. Having a baby changes everything, so if you are not ready for a baby there are thousands of people out there that are. You will have your choice of couples that are willing to open up their hearts for your baby. Many adoption programs will allow you to keep in touch with the family that adopts your baby, it is your choice. The adoptive family will also take care of your expenses. The baby inside of you is a miracle waiting to happen. Maybe not for you, but for a couple out there who has tried everything else and has waited for someone to get into a situation like yours. The decision you make isn't just about you, if you decide to have this baby your decision will effect countless others. It's the biggest and most unselfish gift you could ever give.
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guess what you made a baby guess you can do 2 things put the baby on for adoption or you can be a mother & take care of your baby you need to put the baby up for adoption ok do not have a abortion
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Having a baby is a huge decision and too many people take it lightly.
There are many young people who take responsibility for their actions and have the baby and do a wonderful job raising them. But then there are those who never should've brought a baby into the world at all and did so for selfish reasons.
Only you know what is right for you. By end of one month, the embryo is about one-fourth inch long, with only the beginnings of organ development, so I don't agree that you are killing a baby. Don't let other people's connotations of abortion sway your decision. Know the facts.
There aren't any simple pills to take to erase the situation at the stage of the game, so abortion, adoption or parenthood are you only options.
Most women don't actually go through with adoption because once you feel the baby inside you growing, your motherly instinct sets in and you won't want to let her/him go.
Good luck with whatever you choose. And see a doctor! It could be a false alarm. Just remember, you're not alone.
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okay firstly you need to sit back and take a deep breath. There is that better?? okay you have found yourself in a situation you do not want to be in, you need to think this through and get it clear in your head, do i or don't i want this baby, i would not judge you because everyone and every situation is different. Now get yourself an appointment at your GP asap you can talk it through with them, they will probably be the best people to advise you and offer some counselling on the decision you are going to make, no-one can tell you if it's right or wrong, it's up to you to choose nobody can make the decision for you, having an abortion should be thought through carefully i wish you all the luck in the world sweetie, much love xxxx
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Pregnancy tests are around 99% positive, but there is something called a 'false positive' so try another test to be sure.. There is a morning after pill that can be taken, but it must be taken within 72 hours of having sex. You have two options open to you, you can either continue with the pregnancy and have the child, or have an abortion. I was reading some of the answers and am shocked by them all saying that abortion was not an option open to you as it is 'wrong'. Remeber its your choice, and anything you choose will be difficult emotionally to handle so I would advise you go to your doctor, and that you confide in a close friend, or mabey your mum? The following website is really helpful if your a resident in Ireland. If your not Im sure you can google unplanned pregnancy and find something relevant to you. Best of luck..
http://www.positiveoptions.ie/index.php
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Hey How did you get all those points accumulated & still have time to become pregant? Can't really help with your dilemma , but good luck.