Anybody else hate miscarriages as much as i do????

i have had 3.
rnnmy 3rd one being just this week.
rnnwhy does this keep happening??
rnnim only 21!!! i should be healthy!!!
rnni went to the doctors and he said if i have another THEN they’ll run tests.
rnnim like, i bloody need tests now!!! i can not handle yet another miscarriage!!!!!!
rnnmust my babies keep dying for them to finally do something about it???!!!

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yes im currently goin through my 2nd 1 at the age of 22 well there saying im having a threatened miscarriage but it doesnt help i want to get tested after this 1 but was told by my physician i need to have 3 b4 they do ne tests how much of a joke is that i couldnt cope wiv the 1st 1 that was a missed miscarriage now im having a threatened miscarriage so wats gona happen nxt time?? i strongley recommend u speak to ur doctor exactly how u feel and tell him its hard enough haven 2cope wiv the fact uve had 3 miscarriages and really couldnt put ur body or mind through yet another 1 b4 they begin to care and if not just go private yes it mite b a lot of money but at least its jus 1doctor to take care of u and test u 4nethin that could be preventin u from carryin a baby this is wat im goin 2do if the physician dont want to help me cos im sick of the fact that doctors dont understand and really dont no wat ur goin through i really hope this helped and good luck in the future

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yes i've also had 3 from 7 wks to 17wks and just found out i am preg again, but i know why i miscarry ites a genetic problem, but if it wasn't for me having my child 9 years ago the rest of my family wouldn't know why they kept miscarrying.
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rnnI was always told if you suffer 3 miscarriages the doctors look into it then, if i was you i would go back to the doctor and DEMAND tests being done as there must be a reason why your miscarrying dont stand for the rubbish they give saying wait for another miscarriage and then they’ll look into it, ask them if they would wait i bet they wouldn't…
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rnnOh and my cousin also found out from tests that she has sticky blood meaning everytime she got pregnant the blood thickened and she lost the baby at around 8 wks each time.
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rnnDont stand for it go to physicians and demand tests now…
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rnnSo sorry for your losses…

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I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
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rnnYour physician is playing the numbers game (as dictated to him by common practise). Miscarriages are relatively common so having three doesn't mean that there is anything wrong - it might just be that you have been terribly unlucky. If you have another miscarriage they will investigate.
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rnnI know this doesn't help your situation but I do hope that things improve for you.

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I have the ability to completely understand your pain and frustration. I had a miscarriage two years ago before becoming pregnant with my now 7 month old son. The miscarriage was more devastating than anyone can envision and I still grieve for the lost baby although I have a healthy son now. To have 3 is completely unacceptable without giving you some answers - I am British and so glad I'm now living in Belgium as my physician was fantastic and stated if I was to miscarry again they'd run tests straight away - I was also scanned and regularly (every 4 weeks) examined to see if the baby was fine the second time around. I'd go back and see what your options are - you should at least be able to have a scan to see that your uterus is OK and has no abnormalities. The very best of luck and fingers, toes etc crossed for your next pregnancy :)!!

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i kno this sounds horrible but sometimes they happen for a reason, either the baby wasnt healthy or u werent healthy. hopefully the tests will confirm that there is nothing wrong with u & they can figure something out. I concur, its disgusting that it has to had happened 3 times for them to do something about it, a lot of the time they think that ur to youbg to care & it was a mistake, well that makes me so mad…
rnni wish u all the best for ur future & hope u have a wonderful, beautiful, healthy baby in the near future.

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You have to comprehend that there’s nothing you can do about miscarriage… a lot of the time its because there is something wrong with the baby.
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rnn I know youve been through a lot and I couldnt even imagine what you're going through right now, but if you want tests I would go somewhere else because I think you should be able to get them NOW…not later.
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rnnYou might also have to think it may not be something wrong with you….. maybe the sperm isnt too great.

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My advice would be to wait until you can possibly handle another miscarriage before even thinking about getting pregnant again. I am really sorry for your 3 angels but remember if you try hard enough one day you’ll get a baby.
rnnMaybe you can try going to see another doctor, female perhaps? She might be able to understand how you are feeling a bit superior.

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sorry about your loss hun i have had 2 miscarriages but I have also had 2 pregnancies well one carried to term i am on my 2nd fullterm fingers crossed I do hate them as much as you do some day you’ll have your chance to be the best momm you can be .. GOod luck and god bless yu

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I had one, and you just have to think of it like this - if something was wrong with the baby and your body rejected it, that's really honestly better than having a baby with severe lifelong disabilities. I can't believe that they're not testing you now though, three is a lot - I would go to another physician for a second thought.

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i'm so sorry you had to go through the losses you’ve, my mom had a miscarriage and we were devestated, luckily it was early on so the baby wasnt formed much yet. perhaps you should consider adoption, and make sure to demand your doctor checks you out-three miscarriages is a huge deal!

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sweetie im 22 and i had 1 i was 7-8 weeks. dont blame yourself. they happen for many reasons beond our control. its the most horrible thing to go through. i would definetly get tests done because there could be a reason for this to keep happening. just pray and hope for the best. and im sure youll be blessed with a baby. i wish you all the best and hang in there it will all be ok.

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You’re blaming the physicians for your miscarriages???? How odd. Even though I feel bad for you, I've had 3 myself…you can't blame the physicians. You first of all need to give yourself a break. You are obviously getting pregnant every 5 minutes. Maybe your body needs time to heal. Not all women can carry children, has nothing to do with age.

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I’m so sorry for your losses. Your doc should have tested you after the 2nd one. I would definitely get another docs view if you can. Why does he want you to have 4 m/c's before testing? 3 m/c's is obviously something worth checking into. You could have just a hormonal imbalance which can be easily fixed. Go to another doctor. Good luck!!

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I've never had one, married with 2 kids.
rnn The reason why? When was your last pap? Cervix problems, scleroderma or problems. Genetic disorders.
rnn I would wait a while before trying again to get pregnant. I would also go to a different Dr. to get blood work etc done.
rnn They also have fertility Dr.'s that might help.
rnn here’s the internet advice……….
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rnn Fortunately, there are tests that can be performed to help determine why miscarriages are occurring.
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rnnOnce upon a time women were referred for testing after they had experienced three losses or more. However, today women are often referred for testing after two losses. There are many reasons for this. First of all, studies show that women who experience two losses or more have an increased risk of another miscarriage by 26 40%. So, women who have had two miscarriages should have some tests done to find out why they’re miscarrying and in order not to increase their miscarriage odds. It is also superior on the couple emotionally and financially to find out what’s going on earlier rather than later.
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rnnSome common tests that are performed after a woman has had two losses include tests for rubella, HIV, HEP, chlamydia, gonorrhea, toxoplasmosis, CMV, syphilis, ureaplasma, mycoplasma, and more. Many of these infections or diseases could cause a woman to miscarry and most of them can be treated. If all of these tests come back negative then the woman will undergo further treatments.
rnnThere are autoimmune disorders that can cause multiple miscarriages. Women will be tested for Lupus, anti-cardiolipin antibodies, and anti-phosphlipid antibodies. A thyroid panel might also be required as well as chromosomal testing on the miscarried tissues. Many times miscarriages occur because of random chromosomal abnormalities, but if the miscarried tissue is tested the parents need to be tested as well to see if there’s any link.

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i am so sorry that u are going thru this! i have never had a miscariage or been pregnant, but i am 22 and ttc for just over a year and can only envision the pain u are feeling in ur heart… i cant believe the way u are being treated by ur doc, it is terrible to wait to see if another pregnancy ends on u before they do anything… i hope ur next pregnancy results in a beautiful baby and u will someday have one! very sorry for the losses of ur angels, my thoughts are with u hun…..xxx

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I'm so sorry! it's such a stupid system! ((I'm currently facing a 4 month wait to see a specialist!! - after complaining for 2 years and not getting anywhere!!)) - basically threatened my physician! - (may also work for you - not suggested tho)
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rnnmaybe go see a different physician! or a nurse specializing in this area! (nurses tend to be less money grabbing and more actually concerned!) good luck all the best

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I am so sorry for your loss. I’m ttc too, and I have had no luck for over a year. It is terrible, the highs and lows of waiting to get pregnant. Doctors don't always have the answers, they wait it out just like the rest of us do. Good luck, and I think that your miracle will happen. Just relax.

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im soo sorry about that…my moms had one and it was pretty bad on the whole family….i was only like 13 when it happend and it was messed up….if your blood is O negative then you need shots so your body wont attack your baby. If might be if the man your with…..did he dad all of these babies? BEST OF LUCK

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Go back and tell them you can't risk losing another baby!
rnnTell them to give you some tests now before another baby dies! Physicians are so dumb sometimes!
rnnKeep insisting on having the tests done!
rnngood luck

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I hate them because I love people.

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you should asked to get checked NOW. =]
rnnyou shouldnt have to go through another loss again.

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im sorry to hear that. i do hate them. sometimes i dont even know that they are miscarriages until after the fact

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try another physician or planned parenthood

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Whats miscarriages?