Apr
jus wonderin if any1 out there is the same as me..thinkin that m,aybe their bfp is never gonna come…i really thought this month was maybe the month for me but as my period has come and gone this month i feel so frustrated and fell like it is never gonna happen..i wish i could go back to those days where i thought if it happens it hapens..but i just cant seem to get back there..after losin both my kids one aged 6 weeks and one in m/c almost 6 weeks in to the pregnancy…i just cant see a better endin if u know what i mean..would love to here from ppl who are in the same boat as me and have lost kids as well and just cant seem to get anymore bfp!thanks in advance for ur answers and please no rude commments..i just feel stuck in a rut and a vicious circle that seems never endin.
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i have never lost a child and i wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy because must be a truly horrific experience.
i am TTC and alot of women on here will know exactly how you feel about the up and down emotions every month. at the beginning of the month you are trying really hard to be positive and get into the swing of things, then once u go past the stage of ovulating u start with the am i aren't i and u just pray u'r period don't come. and then when u'r period does come you are so upset and emotionally drained. i know at the moment it seems like a never ending circle but please hang in there like the rest of us, and hopefully you will get u'r happy ever after.
all the best and good luck x
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I do, every month the same thing over and over again, it does feel as if it'll never come, but believe me it'll come to us in due time
baby dust to you
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If I ever saw a positive pregnancy test after I pottied on it, I would probably fall smack out in the floor. This is such a difficult process! Im so sorry about your m/cs. I have not had one but I can really sympothize with you. I want a baby more than anything in this world. In time it will happen. Its in gods hands! God bless and good luck! ~*BABY DUST*~
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I FEEL EXATLY THE SAME! and i also hate being told it will happenwhen the time is right, I feel that the time is right now.
lots and lots and lots baby dust to you!!
x
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I haven't had any miscarriages, that I know of, although I think I might have this last time, or lost any kids. But, I do feel like I will never get a bfp. Good luck!
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You may want to talk to a counselor or someone about how you are feeling. I had a m/c in August and went through a major depression afterwards because my husband and I had been trying for 5 years and were so happy that I had finally gotten a BFP. But then it all ended so suddenly.
After going to a counselor, I was able to get thru my depression and start focusing on my life. I WAS able to just let what happen, happen and sure enough, I got a BFP 3 weeks ago!
I know how depressing it is to constantly see the negative result. I totally feel for you. I can only advise to really try and focus on things you want to do in your life, have fun with your husband and put getting pregnant to the back (if you can) of your mind.
Good luck!
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yes i feel like i will never see one, its kind of weird imagining it. i am sorry to hear you have lost them, i havent experienced that (yet?) and i can understand your pain.
i think i will probably pass out if i see one through excitement!!
i am on my first round of clomid and approx 9 dpo, i have pregnancy symptoms according to my doctor, but they also said that clomid can make you have the symptoms also.
i would love to be but i dont think i am.
sometimes i just cant imagine what it would be like though to read a bfp. i would be over the moon.
xxx
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i had the disappointment of a period again just a few days ago. you responded to my 'wishful-thinking' q. have you been to the doc's to see if there is a medical reason? if there is, things can be done to increase your chances….i'm so sorry you lost your babies, i can only imagine how that feels, may they rest in piece. it might sound like a silly thing to say but, have you been able to move on from your losses or are you still grieving? i know you will always feel your losses, but you need to be able to move on for your own sanity. i may not have worded that as it sounded in my head, please don't take it offensively, it was in no way meant that way.
all we can do is keep trying and although thats not a comfort, its all i can say…
good look to you and if you haven't spoken to anyone about it properly, it might be worth considering, if only to get closure.
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I feel the same way - I have never lost a child or had a miscarriage, but every month i feel its never gonna happen. I came of the pill in dec 07 to try and concieve with no luck yet. I am currently waiting for my period (or not - hopefully) but i am not regular since coming of the pill - fingers crossed it will be this month.
Baby dust to you.