Apr
Hello girls…
currently on CD 16… I think I ovulated on Tuesday because I had the tinest amount of spotting (so ovulation spotting maybe?)… but I didnt confirm that with an OPK…
My sister in law has officially gone on maternity leave now and I have gone all emotional and keep crying to my partner… because I started TTC before her. (she got pregnant straight after coming off the pill)and it just hasnt happened to me!!
My partner had a massive go at me…telling me to cease moaning and if its meant to be then it will be. i dont think he understands my fustration. I do feel awful because at the end of the day… Im jelous of his sister..
What can I do?… I feel that she has what I should have.
What can I do to take my mind off it…
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Oh bless you! It's totally understandable to be jealous of your sister in law, given your situation, but you seem to be harbouring bad feelings against her, you state that she has what you should have. Is she any less deserving of being a mum as you? I doubt you think that deep down. Your man is caught in a very awkward situation, he's naturally happy for his sister and is clearly frustrated by yours and his situation, he shouldn't just tell you to stop moaning etc, but that's men for you they see everything in black in white! Hopefully one day it will be your turn to share the joy of a baby with your family, but until then don't waste your energy trying to change a situation that you have no control over, put your energy into looking after yourself and your future. Good Luck xx
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I know how you feel…I started trying in March '08 and I FINALLY got pregnant on my 10th cycle trying. Have you been to the physician yet? I found out I’ve low progesterone, so my body couldn't sustain a pregnancy. I got on progesterone supplements and that's when I was finally able to get pregnant. My friend from work and one of my cousins both had children before I was even pregnant, and they started trying AFTER me.
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Don't feel horrible! I think it's completely normal to feel the way you feel but you’ve a choice. You can either get really bitter and angry about it or you can do your best to be happy for your sister-in-law. This is a good place to come and vent when you need to, because most of us comprehend where you’re coming from (even the trolls, in their own weird way).
Good luck and baby dust!!!
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I would say don't stress. Try to like everyday you have before the baby you want comes. I find when I concentrate on something I want so much it never comes but once I learn to rest guess what it happens every time.
I wish you well. May you get your wish soon.
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It is normal to feel this way.Each woman does when things like that are stareing you in the face.Just try to keep in mind that in time you will conceve.Just give it a tiny longer.
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the reason your not concieving is probss cos your all stressed out about it, i know its hard to relax but your still young so just have fun trying..good luck
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Go for a pampering session darling. Rest a bit. You seem a little stressed.
(Good luck with the baby) :o)
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yes your partner is right, stop moaning, your dont have a baby now for a reason, leave it down to fate
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Hey Hun-
Take a deep breath, I know this is very frustrating for you. Which is stressing you out…stress isn't good on the body or for baby making. I know- It's easy stated then done, but I've heard if you just forget about “trying” and making it a job it will happen. Focus on finishing your schooling (I'm an RN and it's tough work) which is stressful in its on. Graduate…get into a job and then maybe it will happen. You state you want to specialize….go for it. Do everything you to now, FINISH! A lot of people who become pregnant have to put their goals on hold and if you have that behind you, you'll be less stressed!
Try to be happy for your SIL…HEY- you’re going to be an AUNT! It's like motherhood in training! And it's ok to be jealous…well- you envy her. and I'm sure it's not out of hate or anything just sorrow because it's taking you a bit longer to there!
Trust me- I got pregnant because a friend of mine who had been trying, and we are no longer friends because of the way she treated me. I didn't set out to get pregnant before her as I'm sure your SIL didn't either…I just happened that way. No one knows why…
Ideal wishes and Baby Dust!!
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My wife and I’ve been ttc for 27 cycles now and my wife's 2 sisters have just both had babies. We've both felt the jealousy. Unfortunately there’s nothing to be gained looking at anyone Else's situation other than your own… we notice 'all' the pregnant women around (no more than normal - just stand out more). It is hard, and anyone that states it's not hasn't gone through it. All We have the ability to recommend is that you keep your hopes up, I'm sure several people on here will tell you that of all the people they know ttc… as soon as they 'gave up' and put it to the back of their minds, they got their BFP. Ideal of luck from both of us.
Hellen & Alistair
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GO SEE DR PHIL
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Make a sammich like a good girl
